1.What is prostate massage ? Now men are talking about the 'male G-spot' where prostate massage and prostate milking are terms used to describe the massage or stimulation of the prostate gland which will give a feeling similar to an orgasm. But remember that if you are suffering from acute or severe prostatitis, masage may well increase the chances of the infection spreading.
What is the DRE ? This is the digital rectal examination and is usually performed by a urologist. However this is NOT prostate massage in the real sense as massage involves a longer more intense and pleasurable session, rather than a doctor poking around in a delicate area !
What do you need to do this for sexual pleasure? It can be done either by lubricated finger(s), a prostate massager or other medical instrument, and prostate massage may result in ejaculation without any genital stimulation. The prostate can also be indirectly massaged externally through the perineum but it is usually a combination of the two processes that will be most effective in giving pleasure. That is why prostate massagers are equipped with a lever which presses on the perineum.The procedure is initially undertaken gently using the index finger and a latex glove by massaging the lobes on either side of the prostate, taking care not to rub vigorously on the nerves in the middle.
Are there any risks? It depends on how the massage is carried out and prostate massager should be used with care because of the sensitivity of the prostate, for example if there are prosatatic calculi present, then there may be a risk that these could tear the delicate membranes.